Thursday, October 27, 2011

Fjellhaug is Sold!

So, the deed is done. Today I signed the sales contract. The handover will be around christmas.

It's been a busy, stressfull time, which began when we emailed a realtor. That was on a friday in september. He got back to us the following monday and set up a meeting for the next day, where he explained to us about the whole process. After that things started rolling fast. Arrangements were made for the appraisor to come a week later, and two days after that the photographer came to take pictures of the house. Meanwhile we got busy taking down photographs, getting rid of clutter, and thoroughly cleaning the kitchen and bathrooms. The week after the photographer had been theeree, the first advertisements appeared on the internet, in the local newspapers, and on the realters webb site. Simultaneously a "for sale" sign appeared on the wall.

For the next two weeks a string of cars would drive slowly by, while their occupants peered down the driveway. A steady dribble of people came to look the place over, most by appointment, though the occasional one just dropped in unannouced. Meantime, we had to keep the house clean, and tidy. On the day of the official viewing husband took the dogs for a long walk for the hour that the showing lasted. It was total chaos: at least 15 cars came with people who were interested in looking at the property. Even some neighbors came under the pretence of looking for a place for their son, though I suspect curiosity was the chief motivator. 2 of the couples seemed genuinly interested. Of these one was a woman from California and her Norwegian husband. We hit it off very well. After the showing the suspence began. Altogether 20-some people had been to look at the property. Were any of them interested enough to make us an offer?

The appraiser had valued the property at 1.28 million NOK. The realtor had set the price at 1.3 mill. I worried that that would be a bit high. It is a lovely property, but the house is old and, though structurally sound, it is run down. I had decided to accept any offer of at least one million. A couple more people came to view the house in the next 2 days, and one of these gave us an offer. The woman from california topped this offer, and after about 36 hours of the two offering against each other, we closed at 1.45 million with the first person to put in the offer. He turns out to be a local vet. The same, in fact, who stitched up Lucy when Topsy tore up her leg 2 years ago.

How do I feel about selling, now that it is a done deal? A little scared. What if the new place doesn't work out? What will I do with all that money? What if it is not enouph for a vacation home...

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Empty Nest, part 2

Going through all the stuff that the kids have stored in the attic brings back bittersweet memories. Youngest son went through all his things when he visited in June. Except for a couple of swords, he said I could get rid of the rest. Ah the memories: like the fantasy figures that he used to paint and repaint when he was 15. All the hats, each representing a different phase of adolescence. Paraphernalia from the years after he moved out, and before he went to America: the period when he volunteered for the mental health orgnisation and the student pub, when he studied media and game design at Hedmark College, from his jobs designing web sites, working as a computer science substitute at the high school, and as security at a couple of bars. Now he is enrolled in the US Air Force as a para-rescue apprentice. I had my last conversation with him on skype today. Tomorrow he is off to start basic training, and for the next 8 weeks (at least) will be unavvailable online, or by phone. All news will be transmitted by his cousin, my nephew-godchild. After living together for 3 years, these two are practically brothers. It is wierd, but I wish him success in the life he has chosen for himself.

Oldest son has moved on as well. He has left the town of his youth, and has moved to the beautiful city of Trondheim, to start a life together with his girlfriend, a lovely german girl, whom he met in Australia, and who has come to Norway to go to University here. I visited them at the end of September. More on that visit when things calm down here.

In October I visited the girls in England. Youngest Daughter is enjoying her new University, Roehampton, and is enthusiastic about her sociology studies. Oldest Daughter continues in Cornwall, and is pursuing her interest in nutrition as therapy next to her english & media studies. A report of my visit with them will also be forthcoming once things calm down.

We will be celebrating The Christmas holidays alone this year. The girls are staying together in Cornwall. Oldest Son is going to Germany with his girlfriend, and Youngest Son is in the Air Force.... The girls invited Husband and me to join them, but we cannot leave the dogs and cats so soon after moving.